Grammar
The German Imperative: du, ihr and Sie Forms
Three imperative forms, ten minutes of rules - and one social trap that makes learners sound rude. Here is what Germans actually say instead of a bare command.
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German has three imperatives because it has three ways of saying you. The du form is the bare stem (Komm!), the ihr form is identical to the without the (Kommt!), and the Sie form is the with Sie stuck after it (Kommen Sie!). There is also a wir form for suggestions, built the same way as the Sie form (Gehen wir! = let's go). That is the whole system, and you can learn the mechanics in an afternoon.
The part that takes longer is social. A bare in German lands harder than its English equivalent. "Send me the file" is ordinary office English; Schicken Sie mir die Datei is an order. The normal way to ask an adult you do not know well for something is not the at all - it is plus bitte: Könnten Sie mir bitte die Datei schicken? Learn the forms below, then learn when not to use them.
The three forms at a glance
| du | ihr | Sie | wir (suggestion) | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| kommen | Komm! | Kommt! | Kommen Sie! | Kommen wir! |
| machen | Mach! | Macht! | Machen Sie! | Machen wir! |
| arbeiten | Arbeite! | Arbeitet! | Arbeiten Sie! | Arbeiten wir! |
| nehmen | Nimm! | Nehmt! | Nehmen Sie! | Nehmen wir! |
| lesen | Lies! | Lest! | Lesen Sie! | Lesen wir! |
| fahren | Fahr! | Fahrt! | Fahren Sie! | Fahren wir! |
| sein | Sei! | Seid! | Seien Sie! | Seien wir! |
| haben | Hab! | Habt! | Haben Sie! | Haben wir! |
Notice what is missing: the . Du kommst becomes Komm!, ihr kommt becomes Kommt!. Only the Sie and wir forms keep their , and it comes straight after the . The verb is always in first position, which is why an sentence looks like a yes/no question with the pronoun deleted.
keep their , and it changes with the person: Setz dich! / Setzt euch! / Setzen Sie sich! Separable prefixes go to the end, exactly as in a normal : Ruf mich an!, Macht die Tür zu!, Steigen Sie bitte ein!
The du form: the -e and the vowel change
The du is the present- stem with nothing on it. du gehst gives Geh!, du machst gives Mach!. Three details decide whether learners sound native here.
The -e is usually optional and usually dropped. Geh! and Gehe! are both grammatical; spoken German almost always takes the short one. The written -e sounds formal or literary. Do not force it.
Except when the stem demands it. Stems ending in -d, -t, -ig, or in -m/-n after a consonant keep the -e because you cannot pronounce them otherwise: Arbeite!, Rede!, Warte!, Entschuldige!, Atme!, Öffne!, Rechne!
The e to i/ie verbs change, the a to ä verbs do not. This is the single most common mistake, and it is worth memorising as a closed list. If the du-form of the has i or ie, the has it too, and it never takes an -e:
- nehmen:
Nimm! - geben:
Gib! - lesen:
Lies! - sehen:
Sieh!(orSieh mal!) - essen:
Iss! - helfen:
Hilf! - sprechen:
Sprich! - vergessen:
Vergiss! - werfen:
Wirf! - treffen:
Triff!
But verbs with an change in the drop it in the . Du fährst but Fahr!. Du läufst but Lauf!. Du schläfst but Schlaf!. Du hältst but Halt! There is no Fähr! in German. If you want these drilled with audio rather than read once and half-remembered, the strong- sets live in /library.
sein, haben, werden and the negative
sein is the only whose you simply have to know cold: Sei! / Seid! / Seien Sie! The Sie form is irregular in a way nothing else is - it is not Sind Sie!. You meet it constantly in fixed expressions: Sei still!, Seid vorsichtig!, Seien Sie so nett!, Sei nicht so streng!
haben and werden are regular but common enough to name: Hab keine Angst!, Habt Geduld!, Haben Sie Verständnis!, Werde gesund!
The negative is just nicht or kein in the usual place: Mach das nicht!, Vergiss das nicht!, Machen Sie sich keine Sorgen! German has no auxiliary equivalent to don't, so the stays where it is.
One more form worth recognising even if you never produce it: the wir for proposals. Gehen wir!, Fangen wir an!, Machen wir eine Pause! It sounds slightly brisk and decisive. The everyday spoken alternative uses lassen: Lass uns gehen to one person, Lasst uns gehen to a group.
The politeness ladder
Here is the honest version of what a bare means. Between friends, family, colleagues you are on du terms with, and anyone you would call du at all, the plain plus a softening particle is completely normal and not rude: Komm doch mal vorbei, Gib mir bitte das Salz, Mach mal langsam. The particles mal, doch, schon and bitte do most of the politeness work, and dropping them is what makes a sentence sound curt.
Where English speakers go wrong is with Sie. Translating "Could you send it today?" as Schicken Sie es heute! produces an instruction from a superior. The German default for a request to a stranger, a colleague, an official, or anyone in a service exchange is .
| Register | Example | Where it fits |
|---|---|---|
| Bare | Mach das Fenster zu. | Close friends, family, kids, urgency |
| + particle | Mach doch bitte mal das Fenster zu. | Everyday du-level asking |
| Present- question | Kannst du das Fenster zumachen? | Casual, neutral, very common |
Könntest du bitte das Fenster zumachen? | Polite du; the safe default | |
| + Sie | Könnten Sie bitte das Fenster zumachen? | Strangers, work, officialdom |
| Padded | Wären Sie so nett, das Fenster zuzumachen? | Asking a real favour |
In a bakery you say Ich hätte gern zwei Brötchen, not Geben Sie mir zwei Brötchen. In an email you write Könnten Sie mir bitte Bescheid geben. If you learn only three frames in your first months, learn Könnten Sie...?, Würden Sie...? and Ich hätte gern... - they cover most of daily life. The forms behind them are in the Konjunktiv II guide, and the question of whether you are on du or Sie terms in the first place is in duzen or siezen.
Where bare imperatives really do belong
German is not uniformly indirect. Imperatives are the standard register in instructions, recipes, advertising, sports coaching, warnings and anything addressed to a general public:
- Recipes:
Die Zwiebeln fein hacken und in der Pfanne anbraten.Cookbooks and manuals often use the infinitive imperative - the plain at the end of the clause, addressed to nobody in particular. - Signs:
Nicht rauchen!,Bitte anschnallen!,Tür schließen! - App interfaces and ads:
Jetzt registrieren,Entdecken Sie unser Angebot. - Emergencies and safety:
Ruf einen Krankenwagen!,Bleiben Sie ruhig!
So the rule is not "never use the ". It is that person-to-person requests across a Sie boundary usually take a modal in , while impersonal, public and urgent language takes the freely. That distinction is worth more than any table.
What to actually practise
The is small enough that reading this page once probably covers it. What does not stick from reading is the vowel-change list and the reflex of reaching for Könnten Sie instead of a command when you are under time pressure in a real conversation. Both are recall problems, which means spacing them out beats drilling them once.
On merke.me, the sits inside the grammar library with audio for every form, nimm, gib, lies and the rest appear as their own review items rather than as a footnote to the , and the polite request frames are taught as collocations - whole phrases you can say, not patterns you have to assemble. Verbs themselves live in /vocab, and you can see how the A1 to C2 sequence is put together on the decks page. Start with the free levels and check pricing only when you know the schedule works for you.
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